How to Talk to Women (At a Restaurant)

All of my life, people have always asked and wondered how I was able to date some of the most beautiful women around. I was not rich, have slightly above average looks, and work very hard. Also, I was often asked how I had an abundance of girlfriends who were always available to do whatever I wanted. Additionally, I was able to do that on a very minimal budget.

The key to my success is utilizing a confident, yet friendly personality and employing some key understandings about women, how to treat women, and what to do with women. Getting a girls number at dinner is a tricky task and one must be very observant in order to achieve success. The following technique is highly effective when followed closely, however it takes practice to master it and the only way to practice is to try in the real world. Review the steps and hit the field!

How To Talk to Women (At a Restaurant)

The main key to pulling the top women is breaking the ice with that individual and while doing so never let the woman know you are interested in her. Make her think that you are genuinely speaking to her because of some other reason and not her looks. I should state that if you are a celebrity or possibly a very wealthy man, as long as you are not completely obnoxious these rules do not apply, however for most of us, this is the only way to get the top girls.

The way to achieve this task is to comment to the woman on something that either has nothing to do with them or has to do with them but has nothing to do with their looks, beauty or sex appeal. For example, you are at a sushi bar and you see a woman that you are interested in across the dining hall. Covertly take a look and observe her appearance, what is she wearing, eyes, body, etc. Perform this exam quick, as you will use this information later. Next observe what is on the table and if additional food is coming. If there is an item o n the table that is a bit exotic or different, that is your in. Approach the table and ask her directly what dish she is eating and comment that it looks good. You are sure to get a response as to what dish it is.

Be prepared to have several back up question in mind. After all, you could care less about what the dish actually is but you must sell it like that the best dish that you have ever seen. As she responds you will also get a sense of how talkative she is or not. When she responds with the name of the dish, ask for recommendations of dishes. Keep this initial conversation brief and then return to your seat. Most likely order one of the dishes when you return as you will use this later for your follow up. The seed is now planted. You sincerely asked her what dish she was eating and how the dish was and now you have ordered the dish. You have given no indication of your true intentions. NONE! You didn't even take it further or ask for a number, etc. Have a drink, eat some of your meal and let that seed grow a bit. You must act like there is no interest, however periodically observe, making sure that she does not leave.

After some time head back over to the table and say thank you for the recommendation and that you enjoyed the food and that you would like to get her a shot to say thank you. (You will know that she drinks, from your perception earlier.) If she immediately says yes, you are in. You will use the time during the shot to learn more about her and ask direct questions as to what she likes to do, where she likes to go out, etc. Again, you are not yet interested in her, you are just being friendly and thanking her. Once she responds to where she likes to go and what she likes to do, coincidentally you enjoy some of the same things. Recommend exchanging numbers to talk about some of those things or meet "with friends" at some of those places.

Once you get the number, see my blog on How to Have Your First Conversation with a Girl!

This technique has been proven to work at the Cheesecake Factory, Roy's, Mastro's, Sapporo, T.G.I. Friday's, El Torito, Outback Steakhouse, Maggiano's, Sizzler, Maria's Italian Kitchen, and many more. Additionally, the clubs were located in Miami, Florida, Los Angeles, Sacramento and San Diego, California, Scottsdale, Phoenix, Arizona, New York, Manhattan, New York, Chicago, Illinois, Dallas and Houston, Texas and Las Vegas and Reno Nevada.

Congrats and let me know how it worked.